Do I have a date yet? No, are you kidding?
Do I have a venue? No way.
Do I know what dress to wear? What? I have to wear a dress?
But I am doing a lot of research on many other things, like flowers.
freshroses.com. They grow their own flowers, have tons of helpful information about doing the flowers yourself, including pictures and lists of flowers according to month (brilliant!), and they seem to have a real sense of humor. I support that. They're based in CA so I'm not sure if I will end up using them in our wedding, but I thought I'd pass along the website.
Am I planning our wedding in the most haphazard way? Perhaps. But this is how I get to have fun.